Suggest Treatment For Vaginal Infection

Hi, I am a 61 year old women that got infection by someone back in 1999 and have been having problems with ha having interment with men in fear of giving them the same thing that I have. Now I have a man who shows respect and understands but someone put fear in him that he is scared to even touch me in that area,and can not show his true feelings towards me and I feel sick and hurting inside that we can not get close to each other. He does not want to do it with me until he can say " I LOVE YOU". He can not understand why he can not say it. We have been seeing each other for almost a year in March. Sorry, I didn't know that there was a fee, thought you all where here to anwers questions for people not looking for money?????