What Are The Symptoms Of Menopause?

I am nervous but I will try to explain my symptoms. I have been sweating and am way over menopause. I don't feel the cold, yet my fingers and toes are icy cold. I have trouble swallowing some foods, as my left side of throat feels sort of closed or lumpy. I have passed 2 kidney stones, one in August and was treated with antibiotics in ER, other stone episode last Monday morning, have not seen doctor yet. I also suffer from heartburn and can get it from simple things like pudding, gravy and other soft foods as well as other foods I must chew thoroughly.
Colonoscopy was clear and fine last month. Can you suggest or guide me what I am to look for?
I also have RA and am taking Savella and Indomethicin. Thank you! Rosie