Can I Get HIV Or An STD From Receiving Unprotected Oral Sex And Deep Kissing With A Stranger, If There Was No Intercourse?

hi doctor, hope you are good today i have a blow job and lip kiss with stranger, no intercourse, but blow job without condom, and deep lip kiss, i dont know wether her saliva is transferred in my mouth or not? blow job without condom for a minute. is there any chances to get hiv and std? i am married and fear to have sex with my wife. please clear this.