Dear Doctor, I Had An Episode With A White CSW

Dear Doctor, I had an episode with a white CSW in a canadian city. In the beginning she rubbed her vagina with my bare penis for about 30 seconds with out any penetration, the outside of her vagina felt wet. After that I put on a condom and started protected vaginal intercourse. It didnt last long, maybe 2mins and while withdrawing I saw the condom was no longer on my penis but was stuck to the outside of her vagina and the semen was inside the condom. My penis seemed dry and didnt seem like it touched the vaginal fluids other than maybe for a split second while withdrawing, with the outside of her vagina lips, but I am not 100% sure about this. Four days and 12 hours later after I woke up with a sore throat, nasal congession, runny nose. No distinct high fever but a feverish feeling. I took augmentin and NyQuil and in 4days I started feeling better, my roommates both of them also fell sick at the same time with the same feverish feeling, runny nose and sore throat. So I thought I just have a normal viral infection and it being december and -20 degrees outside, made sense. In 5days after onset of sore throat which was 10days after potential exposure I felt lot better and had only runny nose and a lot of greenish yellow phlegm, during his time I had two days of slight night sweats. Me and my roommates recovered within 5days. I felt great, and then suddenly exactly 14days since the exposure my right elbow started paining if applied any pressure and then it moved to my right neck which became stiff in the next 2 days, I became paranoid and checked for swollen lymph nodes but couldnt find any. I checked for rash, couldnt find any, but suddenly felt tired again. No headache, nausea or vomitting. The pain that started off from my right elbow then spread to most of my upper body and lasted a total of 9days with the last day being the worst, also on the last day I noticed both of my cheeks and my forehead became pinkish red for about 20 hours, I dont know if I can call that a rash. During the body pain I had no distinct fever, no sore throat anymore, no headache, the body pain seemed to be the only isolated distinct symptom at this time with all other symptoms gone. Then once the muscle pain was gone, I had one night of heavy night sweat. Then a very wierd symptom started, my muscles all over the body started to spasm and had a tingling feeling with no pain. If i touched the muscle during the spasm i could feel it vibrating. It occurred all over my body, and is happening to this date today.
1. After reading my whole situation, do you think I just went through seroconversion?
2. I had a sore throat exactly 4days and 12 hours after exposure, can ars symptoms start this early? My roommates also had similar symptoms starting two days after me so I figured they got the flu from me.
3. The muscle pain started 14days after my exposure when I was feeling great, but my roommates didnt get the muscle pain and spasm which was quite severe, that I got, this is what is most concerning to me, the pain was mostly situated on my right side but the spasm all over my body. The pain lasted 9days but the spasm and tingling muscles I still have. During this time I also felt chills and general un wellness
4. I had a slight redeing of my forehead and cheeks for about 20 hours, i dont know if i can call it a rash. I checked other parts of my body and didnt see the reding anywhere else. it looked like I have pink cheeks and a pink forehead for few hours. Not sure if that can be called a rash.
5. My left eyelid swelled for about 3 hours 4 days ago from today is that a sign of ars or weakened immune?
6. Now when I try to gulp i feel a weird feeling like something is stuck at the right side of my neck.

I had a routine body checkup two months ago and I was clean of every single std and any other health problem

Where I am from, there is no duo test I am waiting for a 8weeks mark to get a conclusive antibody test. Right now I feel good other than my muscles vibrating from time to time.
Please see to my situation and give a detailed response if possible. Thanking you.