i had a hysterectomy in 1993 and in a few years felt like I lost my ability to parant and be a good wife. after 4 years I left my kids and husband and just never seemed to have a logical reason for my feelings. here 11 years later it dawned on me that maybe the hysterectomy had something to do with the way I felt back then. im just trying after all these years to try to make sense out of why I would have left my kids and husband and just cant figure it out in my mind.