Got No One To Advise/help Me! So I'm Desperate! It's

Got no one to advise/help me! So I'm desperate! It's gum disease the skin on my lower from my cuspid canine eye tooth followed by the rest my front teeth central incisor became inflamed in 12 hours - 14 hour my inner gums are breaking apart just realizing there's real lot of plaque behind teeth, now 24 hours seem to be not quite progressing worse though looks bad, can't seem my roots or bone matter yet. pain is tremendous never stopping though I must wait 72 hours just to make an appointment set up, haven't sleep for 2 nights
condition is gum disease likely being periodontitis, in estimation how long in general can I go without the the clean & repair job before it becomes only a severe case off needing surgery option?