Hello Doctor,Iam HIV+ve Person,29 Years Old,working As Professor.Unfortunately,12 Years Back

Hello Doctor,Iam HIV+ve person,29 years old,working as professor.Unfortunately,12 years back i went to spine surgery and during that time my father blood injected to me by the doctors.From then 5 years after i came to know that my father had HIV+ve and turned it to AIDS.He expired due to that cause.With a doubt, my mother and i also went for HIV checkup.Result was +ve.Now iam not using any medicine.Currently iam healthy.But since 1 year onwards a girl is in love with me.I told everything my problem to her because i dont want to spoil her life.She wants to marry me.But still she is not convincing.Their parents dont know about me and my problem.In future the girl would face lot of problems because of me which i wont agree for.So please give me a suggestion how to convince her to marry other person and start a new life.