Hello I Have A Question I Put Some ALEO VERA

Hello I have a question I put some ALEO VERA from a plant in my hair and left it in over night. When I woke up the next morning I notice some of my hair was coming out . I forget I have Henna in my hair. Can you please help me with this issue.? I also put some in my daughters hair I think her hair is okay I left hers in for 20 minutes. Her hair is also breaking from some oil put in her her a few months ago. I need a really good shampoo for her hair and conditioner. Joy