Hello.... My Mother Believes That She Has Hemeroids. However, She

Hello.... My mother believes that she has hemeroids. However, she has very large clots coming out of her backside. One of them was about half the size of the palm of your hand. I am really worried. She does NOT like going to the Dr. so this makes me more concerned.
It was pretty bad before, however, now it seems to be slowing down. I still would like her to get it checked out but she gets really defensive..etc etc. Let's just say she is 100% Italian and stubborn. Any thoughts? Thank you for your time and have a good night. Cara