Hi, Am A Bit Embarrassed Asking This Question. I Have

Hi,
Am a bit embarrassed asking this question. I have the swelling of my right vulva, it started while in Italy last August. I have tried different creams, but it is not getting better. My husband has asked me to visit the Dr. But as my Dr is a male and have known him for many years,am reluctant. The itchiness is getting worse and the sorness keeps me awake at night