Hi, Doctor
This is Himadri Dhar from Mumbai, India.
My brother in low, Mr. Arnab Shome, age 25 years has following problems, please guide us for his betterment -
1. D.O.B: 11/10/1991, Place : Kailashahar, Tripura, India
2. Born and brought-up in Kailashahar with mother, father, elder sister. Total Family members 4 nos.
3. He did his schooling in Kailashahar with distinction in Std. X and XII.
4. He has completed his B.Tech from NIT Agartala. As a student, he was brilliant.
5. By nature from childhood, he was not extrovert. Most of the time he preferred to be alone. Study, sleep, watching TV were the activities he was interested, No physical activities/games.
6. Got Campus selection and joined Reliance Jio in Mumbai.
7. He worked in Reliance Jio for 2 years and during 2nd year of his work life, he had prepared himself for CAT - MBA Entrance. Got 96 percentile and couldn’t get admission in a very reputed B-School. He was not interested for other B Schools than IIMs.
8. During the 2 years of job he was staying in Share room in Mumbai.
9. After doing job for 2 years, he had resigned from Reliance on March’16 and stayed with us for 8 months. During that period, he tried for other job. My observations, he has not put his great efforts to search and never shown any eagerness to work also.
10. In last November he had gone to Tripura for a short visit and to spend time with parents at home.
11. Initial two three days he talked to parents and than reduced discussion and made himself aloof of from all.
12. He is now spending his whole day in single room and not even taking food properly. He eats improper quantity of food once in 24 hours.
13. If mom or dad asks anything, gets irritated and reacts negative. e.g. if they ask to have proper food, he stops taking food also.
14. We tried to make him involved in discussion through his friends, but he got irritated. We are worried at this juncture; he should live a normal life.
15. Kindly help us. What should we do?