Hi I Am Munne Here.last 10years I Am Trying For

Hi I am Munne here.last 10years I am trying for baby,I never get pregnant.my 1 tube is completely blocked(left sight)another tube is 50/50 blocked.i try for ivf but dr said I need to do parmanent brith control(essure brith con)after that I can take ivf,otherwise I cannot take ivf.than last 6 month they did parmanent brith control for me.and after 3 month they did hsg but tube wasn't blocked.now they want to do again but am so afraid to do parmanent brith con again.now what can I do?i am 38 years old.my husband 43.pls let me know what I will do