Hi I Have 3 Kids And My Eldest Had Autism

Hi I have 3 kids and my eldest had autism and my youngest (both boys) has Intercranial hypertension papilloedema and Chiari motivation and I’ve always felt that these conditions are as a result off me because my ex girlfriend who’s had another child who has no medical issues at all and I feel that it was my Genes that caused the medical conditions of my two lads