Hi I Have A Daughter Who Has Seizures And Is

Hi I have a daughter who has seizures and is not medicated.she drinks alcohol once or twice a week to relax she says and smokes weed but I do not no how often,I know she smokes through the week but I don't know how many times .She makes up stories that doesn't exsist and is very paranoid about everything she always needs to be in control of everything, everything is eriating to her and what should just go over her head becomes a volcano.We had a massive argument over nothing and didn't make any sense and she says that I'm the reason her life is toxic. A mothers concern,and she has to small children and a partner that lives in the same fog of drinking and smoking.