Hi, I' M A 18 Years And I'd Like To

Hi, I' m a 18 years and I'd like to know if sexual urges means I'm no longer a virgin. I get turned on a lot and looking at my vagina it's red plus I've never had sex, only when I was abused as a child by my cousin through fingering and also last 2years I saw blood on my panties without sex.... What's the proof that I'm still a virgin please, I need quick answers. Thanks