Hi I Over Stimulated My Clitoris With A Toy And

Hi I over stimulated my clitoris with a toy and have POTS and EDS so was told my blood flow is different.. Either that or awegix to the lube and vibrator...am icing but concerned about having first time sex with my boyfriend tomorrow... It isn't a yeast infection or UTI bjt I wondering if I should postpone another day... He is in the army and we have a long distance relationship so I would rather not but I am not sure if it wi affect my ability to lubricate? Is there anything I can do to reduce the sensitivity other than ice? (Not on direct skin)