Hi, If You Could Help. I Am A 52 Year

Hi, If you could help. I am a 52 year old female, I have had decompression spinal surgery and disc removal 6 yrs ago, since then had shoulder impingement surgery (arthritis). Now I have cystic lesion on my right wrist and with I found out recently, a hole in one of my same wrist bones although not near the swelling site. I also have on my right outside ankle pain and swelling, had MRI and waiting for the result. I am so worried no one is putting 2 and 2 together as my joints seem to be failing I am not on any medications and work full time with my own house and son at Uni. I am so worried that I have something going on here. I see a different GP every time. The consultant I saw re my wrist was concerned about the hole in the bone and I understand what he is saying about that issue. I have a dye MRI now 2/11. Putting this altogether I am getting really worried. Any help would be appreciated.
Kim