Hi Mrs.Wellner So I've Been On And Off With Someone

Hi Mrs.Wellner so I've been on and off with someone I've loved for a year
At one point they cheated on me that was a few months ago though but sometimes I get a little wary of him if I think something weird is happening that seems like its happening again
But he's reassured me now that he is very sorry about what happened and doesn't want to hurt me
Yesterday he told me that he doesn't want a relationship right now(though he said he's sorry and will miss me so I think he does have feelings for me still and said he's trying hard to be a good boyfriend and balance the other things in life but its too stressful) because of stressful school life and family life (I honestly didn't know about this because he didn't say he was stressed and seemed fine)
He helps his mother and father take care of his 2 younger brothers and I believe there's a baby that belongs to an aunt who lives there too so I can imagine how stressful it can be(I intend to recommend this app to him even if its only for the week trial I hope it can help)
The biggest problem I wanted to address is that when I was talking to him I noticed I was more focused on how our relationship was ending more then I should've been focusing on addressing his issues and it made me feel very selfish..and I only want what's best for him
So I want to find out how I can do right by him and thought you may help