Hi, Am Sam And I Would Really Need Your Assistance.

Hi, am Sam and I would really need your assistance. Am 22 years of age and am having some problems. I used to masterbate. But I wasn't an addicted. Then I started experiencing wetness inmy inner wears every time I wake up and when I go for a long call the spersm were presence in my urine
They were the ting to free my penis. When I do have sexual inter course with a girl the more I try to satisfy her the more it is impossible. I only have a one round and my penis is relaxed. How do I go about it. Please advise.