Hi, Between My Anus And Virgina Hurt When I Pee,

Hi, between my anus and virgina hurt when I pee, whipe, amd clean. My boyfriend says it looks swollen and I recently went to the doctor for oral cold sores on my virgina and I'm wounding is the swelling because of the cold sores or something else? I am having cold like symptoms and Swollen Lymph Nodes in my neck and between my thighs and virgina.