Hi Doctor, I Am Unable To Do Intercourse With My

Hi doctor, I am unable to do intercourse with my husband, as I am too much scared of having pain, and this gear factor doesn't allows me to have proper ejaculation.
My doctor has guided me to consult a psychiatrist, as my ultrasound report for pelvic went well,
Then she has given me xylocain gell to apply internally,
Please help me as I.never did intercourse for last two years