Hi Doctor, We Are Going To Psychiatrist For Before Divorce

Hi doctor, We are going to psychiatrist for before divorce counselling. My wife didn't allowed for sex and telling complaint one me and stating that i didn't tried and i have problem. I hope she loved some one and still having contact with him. My friend informed that during counseling they will apply balm on forehead and will give a tablet before counselling. May i know the use of tablet and balm. Is it possible to get true in her mind. Please advise.