Hi Doctor! Please Help Me.. I'm In A Big Trouble..

Hi doctor! please help me.. i'm in a big trouble.. i'm Asian married women now 3 month for my marriage life.. i can't understand still i'm a virgin or not because when our honeymoon its really painful to me so my husband doesn't want to hurt me after that we tried more but we couldn't do it but but now its different better than that days... but still i think my virgin is not damage cos penny is go inside like near to half to one inch. my husband doing fingering also ... we are now fed up of this and mentally down
but we happy when doing other things.. please doctor help me