Hi My Name Is Tamerah, I Have Had 4 Spine

Hi my name is Tamerah, I have had 4 spine injuries. Been told I have some bulging discs and deterioration. I've been told I have fibromyalgia, sjogams, lupus, Lymes, arthritis. I've been told this week my blood work shows mononucleosis, estenbar. I have been living with this for over 25 years .
I'm constantly in pain. My rheumatologist has me on fontana like patches, hydrocodon,and lerazapam. But I still have a lot of break through pain. My primary doctor wants me to take herbs, cats claw, and cvs?
I know there is no miracle pill. But PLEASE is there any other way, so I can try to be able to enjoy what's left of my life, and my grandkids! !