Hi My Son Is 29 Has Been Misdiagnosed For Many

Hi my son is 29 has been misdiagnosed for many years. I understand why I think. But how do I get him to gain trust in me and help him go forward? When my son was 7yrs old itappeared to me that he d NOT HAVE EMPATHY FOR OTHERS.. was oppositional disorder and he
was diagnosed with severe dyslexia just prior to College. Yet he received a scholarship to St Andrews in Scotland! Hel