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How Can I Tell If I'm A Virgin After Rape/sexual
How can I tell if I'm a virgin after rape/sexual assault?
Years ago, 3 boys took me behind their camper and told me to pull my pants down. I ran, they pushed me, held me down, and started fingering me down my pants. As I fought back they punched me out. I later awoke with my pants and panties off. I tell myself it was just assault to clear my virginity but if it was rape I need to know. I've had heavy discharge, heavy periods, overactive bladder, and IBS. I don't know if that has anything to do with what happened. I don't know if I should tell my gynecologist or doctors because I don't want others to think "I'm making a mountain out of a molehill." My family feels uncomfortable to talk about it. So I'm confused on how I should be feeling. What's haunted me all these years is not knowing what they did to me being I was unconscious. I can't report it because I never saw them again. I don't know their names but I do know their faces.
Years ago, 3 boys took me behind their camper and told me to pull my pants down. I ran, they pushed me, held me down, and started fingering me down my pants. As I fought back they punched me out. I later awoke with my pants and panties off. I tell myself it was just assault to clear my virginity but if it was rape I need to know. I've had heavy discharge, heavy periods, overactive bladder, and IBS. I don't know if that has anything to do with what happened. I don't know if I should tell my gynecologist or doctors because I don't want others to think "I'm making a mountain out of a molehill." My family feels uncomfortable to talk about it. So I'm confused on how I should be feeling. What's haunted me all these years is not knowing what they did to me being I was unconscious. I can't report it because I never saw them again. I don't know their names but I do know their faces.
