How To Treat A Tear In Ear Lobe?

So I stretched my ears too fast and I've had a blowout for awhile. (A flap of skin pushed out the back of my ear.) Is there anything I can do to make my earlobes not as thick/breakdown scar tissue? I don't have the money for surgery...could you possibly recommend any type of lotion or oil I could use? I've tried Vitamin E oil and Bio-Oil I believe it is but it I haven't seen any improvement.