I Am 28 Years Male. I Am Getting Married After

I am 28 years male. I am getting married after 10 days, please give me advice, what take care I have to do and which type of take care my fiance have to do? Which condom I have to use for first time intercourse? Which lubricant I have to use? Is there any problems if I use ky jelly lubricating with condom? She have to start take a pills and when? What we have to do if intercourse is not possible? What we have to do in blooding?