I Am 37 And Two Weeks Ago I Had My

I am 37 and two weeks ago I had my lower left wisdom tooth extracted. It took 45 minutes and he slipped with an instrument into the back of my jaw. There was also two huge cracking sounds and he checked to see if he had broken my jaw. I also had another tooth removed at the same time.
There is a large hole in the skin where my wisdom tooth was, a small lump still on my jaw. I got my period early and spotted for a week, I have pain behind my tongue and I am having hot and cold flashes and sleep all the time. What should I do?