I Am Mixed, My Mother Being Descendent From Swedish And

I am mixed, my mother being descendent from swedish and spain and my father being black skinned but from italians. I have black labia (both inner and outer) and i wanted to know if there is anything i can do to make it paler or pinker as i live in a place where everyone is white and men are not used to this type of circumstances. is there anyway i can make it pinker? i also wanted to know if there is another option apart from quirurgical to "cut" or make the inner labia shorter?