I Had A Total Abdominal Hysterectomy Bladder Sling Tuck Up

I had a total abdominal hysterectomy bladder sling tuck up surgery on November 10,2005 which is what i was told during my pre-op appointment on November 7 2005 with the obgyn and urologist two separate surgeries using two surgeons i had a 3 day hospital stay with two smal incisions in the abdominal wall and one incision below the belly button the switches desolved after about a week i was able to go home without catheterization everything seemed to have gone well untill i developed a huge boil or abscess on my inner left thigh closest to my knee i returned to the er and had the abscess lanced i was given a hormone shot and sent home long story short in 2010 i began to suffer from oab vaginal bacteria infection and septic shock syndrome id loose my bowels and pass out i tried and tried getting some help but i got nothing then three years ago my husband left me i lost my job my house my car and everything else i owned my kids are grown with families of their own and my diagnosis today are cystocele midline,vaginal atrophy, candida vaginitis, vaginitis pruritus vulva, i have an overactive bladder sometimes i