I Have A Tumor In My Adrenial Gland, I Suffer

I have a tumor in my adrenial gland, I suffer with extreme pain. I was told by a surgeon that if he operated I would be asking for cancer. Is there any hope for this? I am turning 50 tomorrow and would love to find help with this. please any help would be appreciated. I honestly believe this is a side effect of being given hydrocodone for surgeries on gall bladder, HYSTERECTOMY, ROTOR CUFF REPAIR.