I Have Been Having Trouble With My Eyes And Have

I have been having trouble with my eyes and have seen a total of 5 doctors. At first I was told was given glasses, then told I had dry eyes, allegeries, and it was caused common in women as they age. I saw another doctor who diagnosed me with an inflimation of my eyelids. I have done scrubs, prescription drops, antibotics and various over the counter drops up to 10 or more times a day. I have had plugs inserted, but they do not seem to stay. I am scheduled to have the lower ducts permenatly closed. During this time my eyes have progressively gotten worse. I have a very difficult time driving, cannot watch television and walk around with my eles closed a good bit of the time. To top it off I have developed anxiety attacks with include difficulty breathing and upper body muscle spasms. I don't want to continue to doctor hop, but I worry there could be more wrong. My GP has me on medication for low thyroid, its been checked and is currently controlled by medication, Xanax XR and Xanax to try and control the panic attacks, an anti depresant and I also take a low dose birth control pill. Any suggestions? To add to my issues, more importantly my husband has just been diagnosed with cancer and we will be leaving for FL next month for surgery. I need to be able to talk care of him.