I Have Been Seeing A Man Who Has Been On

I have been seeing a man who has been on parole for 20 yrs.. He is very nice however says he can't love anyone because he was abused as a child and can't distinguish between love and lust with women. He can't love 1 woman. He just wants to be very good friends. He says he likes me too much too get intimate with me. He wants me to be in his life forever, but he can't love me.