I Have Been Suffering From Adhd All My Life. Failed

I have been suffering from adhd all my life. Failed my way through school and now it's affecting my marriage due to the fact I am never still nor can I sit down. What aggravates me the most is walking my house 100 times trying to remember what I'm doing. I went to get seen by a pshycotrist and she told me that my adhd was the least of my worries and puts me on an antipshycotic medicine. Where did that come from? So on other hand I was refused even after taking family with me. I need help before it completely crushes my family and my marriage. Is there any other options ?