I Was Diagnosed In 2002, After A Very Serious Car

I was diagnosed in 2002, after a very serious car wreck, with 4 discs in my lower back & 2 in my neck being severely damaged - my C4 & C5 were supposedly out of place completely & bulging, my L4, L5, S1, & S2 were worse, with 2 of them out & bulging, & the other 2, I was told, had actually sustained such trauma that they shattered, & I had bits & pieces of them floating around in my back near my spinal cord so they refused to operate because they said it was too big of a liability on them because a fragment could get into my spinal cord while they had me on the table & then I would be paralyzed from that point down, but that can happen to me at any time without the operation. I also have Degenerative Disc Disease that I inherited from my father, & the wreck did a lot more damage to my whole body. They had been treating me with really good drugs & therapy, & had made me change my entire lifestyle to accommodate my permanent injuries, & had me prepared for them getting worse as I got older (I was only 28 when this happened & was RAISING 3 boys on my own). I lost my insurance because I could no longer work, was in a wheelchair, then used a rollator, & finally could walk short distances after a year without assistance, even though the DR 's had said I'd never walk again! I still have had to use my rollator & electric carts on most days if I leave my house, & on bad days in the house, but everyday I can stand up is a blessing. I am in constant pain. Now, this past year, I was a passenger in another very serious car wreck, where, even though I was strapped in the seatbelt, I still ended up getting thrown over the top of my seat, the seatbelt wrapped around my legs several times, my head embedded into the roof of the van & scraped embedded all the way back to the back dome light, where I was trapped upside down, with my head embedded into the roof of the van & my bottom scrunched on the floorboard & the seatbelt wrapped around my legs several times!!! The paramedics & firemen had to get me out of the van. I was lucky because there was 2 E.M.T./Firefighters on a lunch break, right in front of where the accident happened & they saw it all, & had already called it in, & was running to the van before it even quit rolling & flipping, so they were able to get me out quickly. Anyway, this is where I get confused & need your help.... Of course, with my history, the new DR 's that I have now with my new insurance, immediately started running a battery of tests on me to see what damage the new wreck had caused, especially since I was in horrendous pain now, not only in the places where my old injuries were, but in several new places on my back, chest, hips, pelvis, shoulders, elbow, hands, knees, ankles, etc., had a lot of swelling in all of these places, had instantaneous black bruises on most of these areas, & suddenly those joints were popping out of place several times a day for no reason. Here's the really confusing part - when they got my test results back, they are trying to tell me now, that, not only, do they not find ANY injuries, or causes for my pain,swelling, bruising, & joints popping out, BUT....THEY SUPPOSEDLY DON'T FIND ANY OF MY PREVIOUS INJURIES FROM MY OLD WRECK EITHER!!!! THEY SAY THEY DON'T SEE ANYTHING AT ALL WRONG WITH MY BACK, OR THE DISCS, & THEY CAN'T FIND ANY DEGENERATIVE DISC DISEASE, ANY SCIATICA, ANY ARTHRITIS, ANY NERVE DAMAGE, ANY SIGN OF PREVIOUS BREAKS IN MY BONES THAT HAVE HEALED, NOTHING!!! THEY ARE EVEN SAYING THAT THEY DON'T FIND MY HEART CONDITION THAT I WAS BORN WITH - W.P.W.!!! Now they have taken me off of some of my meds that I have been on for all of these years, they're threatening to take me off of my heart meds, & I'm, not only, TOTALLY LOST & CONFUSED, & DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO OR BELIEVE, BUT THE PAIN, MUSCLE SPASMS, SWELLING, STIFFNESS, FATIGUE, & ALL IS GETTING COMPLETELY UNBEARABLE, & IS KEEPING ME IN BED, & I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO BECAUSE NO ONE SEEMS TO WANT TO LISTEN TO ME, OR TO HELP ME, & THERE HAS BEEN TIMES WHERE THEY HAVE LOOKED AT ME & SAID THAT ACCORDING TO THEIR TESTS, THERE'S NOTHING WRONG WITH ME, SO THEY WON'T DO ANYTHING ELSE FOR ME, EXCEPT MAYBE GET ME INTO A DRUG REHAB, IF I WANT IT!!! I HAVE NEVER BEEN SO HUMILIATED IN MY LIFE!!! I HATE DRUGS, & NEVER WOULD TAKE THEM, IF I DIDN'T HAVE TO TO LIVE!!! I'VE NEVER BEEN IN ANY TROUBLE IN MY LIFE, OR ANYTHING, SO I WAS SO APPALLED THAT THEY WOULD SAY THAT TO ME, ESPECIALLY WHEN I REALLY NEED THE MEDS, & MY OLD TESTS SHOWED ALL OF THAT DAMAGE BEFORE I WAS EVEN INVOLVED IN THE NEW CAR WRECK, & THAT STUFF CAN'T MAGICALLY FIX ITSELF, SO I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO!!! Can you help?