I'm Having Kidney Stones. My First Round Were Termed Strivings.

I'm having kidney stones. My first round were termed strivings. I was septic & in ICU w/what the Dr. called septic kidneys & upper respetory infections. This time the crystals look like salt . I have an indwelling supra pubic cath. I'm nauseated and have begun bowel incontinence. I need foods that constipate. Normally constipation is my problem. I'm in a wheel chair dx'd w/cauda equina. It is most common for me to have urinary incontinence, less bowel.