Is It Safe To Use Lidoderm Patches With Tramadol And Flexeril For Pain?

Well my Dr prescribed lidoderm patches along with tramadol and flexerol. However I can t seem to get any pain relief. Because of this Iam in abl to sleep at night. I struggle to care for my children. Most days its torture to sit inmy chair or lie in bed. I cannot pick up my baby most days and she s only 23 pounds. Is there anything else I can do? I wear three patches at a time the limit and the 12 hours in between is hell!