Is There Any Truth To What Men Say About Getting

Is there any truth to what men say about getting self gratification from you know, doing what they do. Sorry, I can't seem to be blunt.I didn't know I had to pay,I don't get paid till the 3rd so I guess I have to wait. BUT, you should say payment upfront. 'cause I know You won't take my card number and run it on the 3rd, right? Thanks,bye