My 16 Year Old Daughter Was Diagnosed Recently With ADHD/Dyslexia,

My 16 year old daughter was diagnosed recently with ADHD/Dyslexia, Anxiety and Depression. Husband doesn't communicate with me, resolve conflict, compromise, demonstrate empathy, is unable to make good decisions, plan, prioritize, is impulsive, makes decisions for me, violates boundaries and has not taken me to the movies since 1997 and will not take me anywhere like a concert or a weekend getaway. He will not go see a therapist. Is there a chance he has ADHD too? He says i am the problem because I get angry and resentful. I am at the end of my rope with him. His parents see no issues with their son.