My Girl Friend K But What Can I Tell Her

My girl friend k but what can I tell her cysts on her overies and has had many blood transfussion fuss. Over the last year or more. She is afraid to have the option to remove them she's 43, thinks it will take her femaninity with everything else. Now she's in big pain and her left leg is numb but hurts a lot, what do I tell her she's scared.