My Husband Is 62 And Taking Abilify 10 Mg- We

My husband is 62 and taking abilify 10 mg- we talked to his nurse/dr and told her about the side effects he has. He also takes calonzepan 1 mg. He has had rapid weight gain (2 sizes in several months) and the muscle spasms in sleep and difficult breathing in sleep, the mask look on face and kind of slowed up in speach. He sleeps now all the time after dinner and work and on weekends. Im scared for him and his nurse/dr allowes him to take this med. What can I do?
Im sorry I don't have the 20 dollars to pay here. Im sorry.