My Husband Of 58years Died 3 Mos.ago.We Sold Our House

My husband of 58years died 3 mos.ago.We sold our house just before he died.I am living with my daughter &her husband.I had a lot to do at first & my daughter is a gem.Now I have these ashtray hullutions.They. Are all between her husband & her.There are some things like a phrase that is repeated over & over.When I wake up these phrase is repeated over & over.