My Son Is 6. We Had His Hearing Tested. Both

My son is 6. We had his hearing tested. Both ear drums are not vibrating. Thhis teeth and has night maresey say its a miracle he has compensated as well as he has. We are waiting for a surgeon's referell to out tubes in, but nothing g is promoised. This child loves music. Dances to it and loves it as it is almost apart of his bring. I just don't understand. The fact that he has been deaf. He started complaining of headaches in Sept. And grinds his teeth when he sleeps. He has been having nightmares he go to at inYELLOW in school for talking when he was not suppose to or not following directions which is DEVASTING to a first grader. Helppppp