My Wife Filed For Divorce Which Will Become Absolute On

My wife filed for divorce which will become absolute on January 8. She is so driven that she had to text me even on xmas day! to ask if I wanted some cassette tapes. She has already moved my stuff/furniture into storage and never seems to miss a day when she reminds me about various items which I might want. She is clearly clearing out of the house all trace of me. She stresses that I dont need to work and that she will pay me. However, I do NOT want to be dependent on her (I had planned to retire) and be 24/7 available to take/look after our son who is thirteen (not that I mind that per se). She seems to tick the boxes with sociopathic traits. I am becoming mentally exhausted by her almost daily pressure. Divorce is bad enough, but this makes it hell. What can I do?