Okay Here It Goes, I Believe Based On What I

Okay here it goes,

I believe based on what I read and what I see I have balanitis which I originally thought was just friction burn until the skin kept splitting every time I've had sex with my girlfriend the past couple of weeks even when I get an erection the skin splits. I recently went to the doctors because my urine smelled kinda awkward and it hurt a little when I urinated with frequent urination and he said I may have a uti but I haven't gotten results back yet, a little while ago my girlfriend was diagnosed with BV and lately she's been having frequent headaches, we just stopped having sex daily about a few weeks ago can you give me any type off lead way to what might going on