Sir, I Am Female, 85 And Have Been Under Stress

Sir, I am female, 85 and have been under stress that will continue until either I die or my husband (who has alzhimers and is 91) passes. We cannot afford help and I have had several health problems that limit my abilities as usual. I started having IBC when my first husband died in 1994, and it have come and gone all this time and I now realize it has gotten to the worst ever. I have had so many tests and so far no reason is found that can be corrected such as surgery. I am now beginning to think I have a brain-intestine situation...how can I be helped?? YYYY@YYYY