Suggest Permanent Cure For Ear Infection

I know you may not agree with me but we have chosen not to vaccinate our children. In light of that decision, not one Dr. in the state of Maryland will see my children if they are ill. We have one little girl who has swollen lymph nodes in her neck on a pretty regular basis. She has been to the ER and hospital several times and EVERY time treated with amoxicillin for an ear infection. It never really goes away even though the swelling goes down and she is very prone to sickness. Is there any way someone can help try to get her to see the right type of Dr.?