Suggest Remedy For Itching And Bad Odor From Penis Shaft

i have herpes1.....since i was a kid......herpes 2{i think) never been tested....on my penis shaft only.....2-3 outbreaks a year.... about 17 years ago i and my girlfiend were given medicine to cure an infection in me that was causing the girls i slept with to start to have an odor ....no odor on me ..ever.... i took nmedicine three times once i realized the new girlfriend got an odor....i have been with same woman for last 14 years....she has odor too... i have over last couple years now have an odor from my genetal area....its itchy sometimes and gets worse if i dont shower that day...my sack gets a little slimmy and the odor deffinatly is coming from there....do u think they r related....would over the counter test pick that up? any treatment ideas??/