Suggest Remedy For Persistent Headaches

hi,
i am 27 year old female, i have been having headaches everyday for the last 9 months. the headaches are on top of my head, forehead and sometimes back of head. they begin shortly after waking and get gradually worse through the day. i feel generally unwell with the headaches, and find they are eased by sleep. i also have an achy neck and shoulders, a swollen gland on the right side. occassional ibs, and irregular painful periods. I have had to give up work because i feel to ill. i have seen my doctor many times, but have not as yet been given any diagnosis, or anything that has helped me. i would really appreciate any help or advice you could give me, beacuse i am finding it hard to cope feeling ill all the time. thankyou